Light a candle in the cemetery
Let it burn to the ground.
And I'll whisper at the grave
Well, daddy has come!
In a land cold and damp
Probably freezing?
Get up! Let's go home already!
After all, you miss us as well!
And stop calling home
There's a deaf hole in the ground.
I want to hug you so much
Also Brother and Mom.
Well come back! Wake up!
Watch the sun shine!
I will help to get up from there,
Just let me know!
Tell me this is a joke
And we will laugh together.
And by the hands, as in childhood,
let's go home !!

Again longing squeezes tightly paws
Digging claws deep into my soul,
I miss my dad more and more ...
Six billion people on earth
But among them - not one, believe me,
Who could fill this void ...
I live in the hope of meeting after death
At Eternity, crossing the threshold ...
Fatigue accumulates more and more ...
Let the melancholy keep its paws
I stayed there as a baby somewhere,
And daughters love dads more ...

Yes, I'm an adult, I understand everything
but it's not easier to live from it!
I miss you madly anyway!
Continuing to love all the same!
Continuing to think about daddy
And remember about him, about the living.
Touching the heart strings
That it will never be lifted.
That you will never hear him
That he will never wait.
He's probably higher than all the clouds,
In the unknown space of God ...
He sees us, of course he sees,
And like us, she just misses.
He flies after us like an angel,
That would be even a little closer to us.
He would certainly like to return,
But he will never be able to
He won't wake up in this world
Nothing will warm his heart.
And it only hurts more
But not thinking about him is impossible.
Every day it's harder on my soul
And it's hard to come to terms, daddy.
And damn time does not heal
And does not tighten these wounds,
And inside the emptiness cannot be filled,
I'm tired of fighting myself!
I want to spit on everything, forget ...
And return home with a smile.
There to see happy faces
And what would daddy be alive again ...

He was with me. Always and everywhere
Laughing, crying and sad.
I will not forget the bottomless eyes.
And I know - he loved me.
I know no matter what happens
He always protected me
And only the memory remains for me
About him. And I blame myself
I couldn't say goodbye
What I didn't have time to understand
That I was destined to part with him,
To lose him forever.
I know for sure, I deserve it.
I couldn't save it.
But she loved madly
And I will always love.
Let him not hear me now,
But I know what he sees
How hard it breathes without it
The one who called him father ..

Days come, nights go ...
And the heart cries and calls.
You know ... somewhere very close
All the time ... my daughter is waiting for you ...
And daughter ... she keeps her name in her heart ...
Keeping like a talisman in my chest ...
And whispers softly (suddenly you hear):
"I miss so much... Come ..."
And you will come, hearing as if ...
And you will protect the dream ...
And how the fog melts in the morning ...
And the daughter ... will wait again.
And they will float after the days of the night ...
The longing cannot be pulled out of the chest ...
Daughter whispers everything ... very quietly:
"I miss so much... Come ...

When the stars light up in the sky
One of them is yours, I know it ...
For many years you have been shining a bright light
And here everything is the same, then winter ... that summer.
The same day and the same way to live ... people strive.
Tired of tears, your family lives ...
everything is as usual, but that's just without you.
Tell me how you live there in heaven?
Is there anger, envy and lies there?
This probably doesn't happen there,
and no one knows cunning and meanness.
You found peace there and found yourself a shelter,
and you know, here they are waiting for you as before ...
Let them say that years heal, pain erase
But what does the heart ache, there is no strength,
from one look at your portrait.
Oh, how short was your earthly age,
My very best dad, my closest person.

Time does not heal, time is sparing
But my heart still hurts as before.
I won't meet again, I won't hear you
How are you, my dear daughter?

Unfortunately, all of us are not given
To turn back what I wanted for a long time.
Time does not heal, time is in a hurry
It is it who decides all the destinies.

We are sorry for you, which did not have time.
Everything you wanted in this life.
Passed by, but alas not to return.
I chose the path with the angel on the way.

Today is 10 years since my dad passed away ...
10 years you are gone ... 10 years ...
10 years is an eternity ...
10 years without you ... 10 years ...
Only now I understand - forever ...
How is it, dad, dear dear
Forever you left without saying goodbye
10 years, 10 years ...
I have been suffocating for 10 years without you ...
Daddy, honey, watch how we grew up -
children and grandchildren!
How we want to snuggle to our chest
and forget about parting forever ...
But now I'm only going to the grave
and I close my eyes tiredly ...
10 years for great trouble
10 years - to forget is not enough….

Well hello dad. .. here, I came to you early.
Forgive me not seeing you for a long time.
I'm so confused, I don't know how to live on.
Trouble comes after trouble again.

Do you remember, dad, how we celebrated birthdays ?!
How, together rejoicing, they joked merrily.
As, all bad weather seemed to us an obsession.
How, together to hell they sent TU to attack.

Your advice, how come in handy -
That I was the strongest in this world.
Believe me, I learned from them like from the alphabet.
I was able to teach my children using them.

Also, you, dad, taught me not to cry.
Do not give in to your destiny for anything.
And if it's difficult, you should never fall.
And in this life, do not be afraid of anything.

Ehhh. .. if only I knew how much I miss you!
A tear fell! (I promised without tears).
From the heart to the ground, flowing through the soul.
To you, my dear, through the chamomile churchyard

The wind blows through the windows. dries wet eyelashes.
How we miss you! forget on your shoulder
Irrecoverable loss. as if they broke my soul ...
I still don’t believe that you are somewhere in the stardust.
In the heart of the pain of memories. and lilac shadows
In indifference to touch, I lie on my knees.
The wind blows through the windows. it flies from you.
And you are not enough in this world ... not enough ...

How hard it is
Losing loved ones.
Nothing can replace
Parental roots.
When my dad died
It was so hard! And the pain in my soul remained
Though many years have passed.
He rarely comes in dreams,
But in my thoughts I see
His portrait is distant.
The earth keeps him, his soul flies
In the distant skies
He's watching me
With love and tears.
Sometimes so lacking
His support to me, And my heart knows:
He is in paradise, not in a fire.
I so want to snuggle
TO HIS BREAST big
And enjoy the meeting.
As in childhood, with all my heart! Hear his voice
Affectionate, dear,
Both stern and angry,
The parent is like that.
How precious are the moments
All our lovely meetings, and these meetings can
Kindle the fire of the soul.
This fire will help
Will give strength to life for me.
Father! Come to the meeting
At least in my dream!

You are now beyond the heavenly line
My beloved, dear person
Death by a ruthless, hard hand
Took you away, daddy forever

You won't give me any advice
I won't see your loving look
I will not be warmed by you
Who is to blame for your death?

No! None! It just happened
You are in God's arms now
My life has changed without you
The heart became like a wounded beast ...

It beats differently without you
And sadness tears him to pieces
My heart yearns and cries
The soul is gripped tightly ...

I won't break your peace with a tear
I will live as a bright memory
I learned to listen to silence
And to love you endlessly ...

Hello, dad, dear ... how are you there? ..
The most loving man in the world ..
You know, if you count the years,
You used to have wrinkles ...

I would kiss them jokingly
Or ached in the sleeve when bad.
You would whisper that the years fly by
Only I'm still such a fool ...

You completely stopped dreaming for me.
If you don't come, tell me, is it necessary?
Give me a message with a shower - how are you there? .. -
I will be desperately glad to her.

I'll tell you how I live
What I am writing, with whom I do not expect to meet again ...
And that I can hardly keep afloat
All hoping that time will heal.

And it ticks regularly to the beat
It sews seams for a long time - not for the weak.
You know, if you count the years ...
The gray hair would suit you very much ...

Loving yourself for the good of others.

A woman dies, and Death comes to her. The woman, seeing Death, smiled and said that she was ready.
- What are you ready for? - asked Death.
- I am ready for God to take me to Heaven! - answered the woman.
- Why did you decide that God will take you? - asked Death.
- Well, how? I suffered so much that I deserved the peace and love of God - the woman answered.
- What exactly did you suffer from? - asked Death.
- When I was little, my parents always punished me unfairly. They beat me, put me in a corner, shouted at me as if I had done something terrible. When I was in school, my classmates bullied me and also beat and humiliated me. When I got married, my husband drank and cheated on me all the time. My children wore me out, and in the end they didn't even attend my funeral. When I worked, my boss shouted at me all the time, delayed my salary, left me on weekends, and then fired me altogether without paying me. The neighbors were gossiping about me behind my back, saying that I was a walking woman. And one day I was attacked by a robber and stole my bag and raped me.
- Well, what have you done good in your life? - asked Death.
- I was always kind to everyone, went to church, prayed, took care of everyone, pulled everything on myself. I have experienced so much pain from this world, like Christ, that I deserve Paradise ...
- Well, well ... - answered death - I understand you. A small formality remained. Sign one contract and go straight to Paradise.
Death handed her a piece of paper with one sentence, under which it was necessary to put a tick. The woman looked at Death and, as if she had been doused with ice water, said that she could not put a tick under this proposal.
On the sheet it was written: "I forgive all my offenders and I ask forgiveness of everyone whom I have offended."
- Why can't you forgive them all and ask for forgiveness? - asked Death.
- Because they did not deserve my forgiveness, because if I forgive them, it means that nothing happened, it means that they will not be held accountable for their actions. And I have no one to ask for forgiveness ... I did nothing wrong to anyone!
- Are you sure about that? - asked Death.
- Absolutely!
- How do you feel about those who caused you so much pain? - asked Death.
- I feel anger, anger, resentment! It is unfair that I should forget and erase from my memory the evil that people have done towards me!
- What if you forgive them and stop experiencing these feelings? - asked Death.
The woman thought for a while and replied that an emptiness would come inside!
- You have always experienced this emptiness in your heart, and this emptiness devalued you and your life, and the feelings that you experience give significance to your life. Now answer, why do you feel emptiness?
- Because all my life I thought that those whom I loved and those for whom I lived would appreciate me, and in the end they disappointed me. I gave my life to my husband, children, parents, friends, but they did not appreciate it and turned out to be ungrateful!
- Before God said goodbye to his son and let him go to earth, he said one last phrase to him, which was supposed to help him realize life in himself and himself in this life ...
- Which one? The woman asked.
- THE WORLD STARTS WITH YOU ..!
- What does it mean?
- So he did not understand what God told him about ... It is about the fact that for everything that happens in your life, only you are responsible! Suffer or be happy YOU CHOOSE! So explain to me who exactly caused you so much pain?
- It turns out I myself ... - the woman answered in a trembling voice.
- So who can you not forgive?
- Yourself? - the woman answered in a crying voice.
- To forgive yourself means to admit your mistake! Forgiving yourself means accepting your imperfection! To forgive yourself is to open up to yourself! You hurt yourself and decided that the whole world is to blame for this, and they do not deserve your forgiveness ... And you want God to accept you with open arms ?! Have you decided that God is like a soft, stupid old man who will open doors for fools and evil sufferers ?! Do you think that he created the perfect place for people like you? That's when you create your own paradise, where first of all you, and then the rest, will be fine, then you will knock on the door of the heavenly abode, but for now God gave me instructions to send you back to earth so that you learn to create a world in which love and care reign. And the one who cannot take care of himself lives in a deep delusion that he can take care of others. Do you know how God punishes a woman who considers herself an ideal mother?
- How? The woman asked.
- He sends her children, whose fates break before her eyes ...
- I understood ... I could not make my husband loving and devoted. I was unable to raise children happy and successful. I could not preserve the hearth, where there would be peace and harmony ... In my world, everyone suffered ...
- Why? - asked Death.
- I wanted everyone to feel sorry for me and sympathize ... But no one ever felt sorry for me ... And I thought that God would definitely pity me and hug me!
- Remember that the most dangerous people on earth are those who want to evoke pity and compassion ... They are called "victims" ... Your greatest ignorance is that you think that God needs someone's sacrifice! He will never let into his abode the one who knows nothing but pain and suffering, for this sacrifice will sow pain and suffering in his world ...! Go back and learn to love and take care of yourself, and then of those who live in your world. And first, ask yourself for forgiveness for ignorance and forgive yourself for that!
The woman closed her eyes and started the path again, but only under a different name and with other parents

While I thought I was learning to live, I was learning to die.

In the hours of suffering, many of us envy the dead, but after coping with the misfortune, people again think with fear about death.

Instead of fearing imminent death, we need to fear that we will not be ready for its coming.

It is said that dying is good to save the life of another.

Dagestan fleas, hearing the lezginka, trampled the cat to death.

Dear Diary! I will never get attached to people again. After all, any of them may die tomorrow.

If everyone praises you, then this is your funeral.

Desires are half of life; indifference is half death.

Life is eternity, death is just a moment.

Life is movement. Only we run to death ...

Life is a game, but death has a trump card.

Life is cinematography, death is photography.

Life is a little death, and death is eternal life. Love is gradual hate, and hate is true love. An angel is a future demon, and a demon is a wise angel. And I am I!

Life is a very short time between two eternities.

Life is a line after death, but some climb out of line.

Life is just an obstacle to death ...

You can live with dignity, but you cannot die with dignity.

The evil created by man does not disappear with his death.

How many people have ruined themselves, for the sake of stupid fun endangering their lives, completely forgetting that this world is only a temporary refuge and that they always live on the verge of death.

When someone dies, you feel guilty for being alive.

Whoever lives in an excessive fear of death is already wrapped in a shroud, as it were, alive, but what is the use of being afraid of something from which you still cannot escape?

Better to die courageously than live in shame.

People don't want to live forever, they just don't want to die.

The dead cannot offend you. They do not hurt - except for the fact that you see your own death on their faces.

We first understand death only when it takes the person we love.

We will all die one day. Some lucky ones will do it quickly and painlessly, but for most, this process is as long and painful as talking to you.

We debut until death, and death is also a debut.

The thought of death brings more terror to the heart than death itself.

Do not be afraid of death, be afraid of a life not lived ...

Do not be afraid of death, while you are alive it is not, when it comes - you will be gone.

There are no big or small decisions, there are only decisions that we make in the face of our inevitable death!

Do not imagine that death is ready to provide you with all the answers. I suspect she's terrible in itself. You simply cease to exist, and there is no more life, there is no way to find out anything at all.

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Death is not to be feared! While we are alive she is not, and when she comes we will be gone.

The most important thing in life is that you are not dead.

It's not scary to die - once you died ... To live is much worse.

Everything in life is false, there is only one truth, this truth is death.

Only death turns life into destiny.

I'm not afraid to die, I'm afraid to stop living.

One must fear not death, but empty life.

When a person is gone, it doesn't matter what he was. What matters is whether the world has noticed the difference.

Instead of fearing imminent death, we need to fear that we will not be ready for its coming.

Until we know what death is, it is not logical to fear it.

The best way to use life is to live it so that it continues after your death.

They say that the day of death is the same as everyone else, only shorter.

Nobody dies too early, everyone dies on time.

For this reason, death is placed at the end of life, so that it is more convenient to prepare for it.

The evil created by man does not disappear with his death.

To die is to join the majority.

Death is the greatest mathematician, for it solves all problems without error.

When someone dies, you feel guilty for being alive.

Life separates people more often than death.

While we are thinking how to kill time, time is killing us.

Don't be afraid of death. Death, like life, is a long way to go with honor.

Have the courage to live. Anyone can die.

If you want to be able to endure life, prepare for death.

We first understand death only when it takes the person we love.

Death is beautiful. Only a dying person who feels her kiss on his lips understands this. Death is to be admired. Death deserves it. How you deserve happiness and peace after Death.

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Hello dear friend! Today we will devote our collection to a very delicate issue that not everyone wants to discuss and think about. Death is a terrible enough thing for each of us. Although, there are people who are afraid of it, and, on the contrary, accept it as a completely natural process of life. Such people can be understood, it all depends on life experience and the faith that leads us through life. Someone says that after death, heaven or hell awaits us. Someone claims that after death there is nothing, and we will disappear into nothingness and darkness. A large and strict aunt, in a black cloak and with a hood, holding a large metal braid in her hands, will one day come and take our life at any moment, tomorrow, today, in a year, at any time. And, nevertheless, it is worth thinking about death, because while a person is alive he is in a hurry somewhere, does business and he is not very interested in how he will leave this life. Throughout our lives, we make many mistakes and think about little. They say on their deathbed, everyone experiences a feeling of remorse and asks to forgive everyone who has been hurt and suffering. Statuses with a meaning about death will help you understand the essence of this issue and study it in more detail. Good luck, take care of yourself!

For us he is alive and somewhere near,
In memories, in heart and in dreams
The soul is always alive, it knows everything
And he sees how we are suffering now!
The sky has become more like one angel,
And this is obvious, I know for sure!
Today, tomorrow and all my life
We remember, love and grieve!

I feel bad without him ... Unbearable
I just exist, I don't live
Oh Lord, give me some strength!
I don't ask for more

Parting cuts and chokes more and more
There is no air. Only bitter gray smoke
All sounds strain the ear and soul,
And the world somehow became empty

I close my eyes and imagine that he is there
Will stab your heart with a flutter in your chest
His face with a blank and sad look
And quietly I whisper: "Don't go ..."

You left so fast
We didn't say goodbye
It's amazing because earlier
We didn't even communicate.

Every time at night
I am sad...
You know, Arkashik,
I miss you, I wait ...

You are far out of range
And inaccessible - I'm so sorry
How I want to hear your voice
And tell your sorrow
Talk about what happened
About what will dream.
I appreciated from the distance
How can you understand me.
You are an older brother - my support
The closest friend. The thing is,
I know we'll meet soon
When we arrive at our father's house.
Well, until I see you,
And you have to wait, whatever one may say,
Only on the phone I hear:
"... Out of network coverage."

The soul shrinks into a ball
He was given a short term ..
And he couldn't do much
Although I wanted to continue to live I could,
But alas ...
The time is over and life is too short ..
And it's not easy to part, but nothing can be returned,
And a sharp knife to the heart ...
And it's better not to touch anything
Did you want to help? well...
You can't help with anything
And the strip of the knife will not grow together
You are dying slowly
You scream as if you are not breathing
But all in vain .. He left for another world forever ...


You left, the whole world has darkened ...
the heart is beating already barely audible ...
I do not believe that you are not.
Why did it turn out this way?
You left, taking everything with you ...
Tears froze in my eyes ...
And in the heart there is only a dumb pain ...
We will remember YOU forever ...

Hearts are burning and candles are crying
According to our dear ones.
And in the early morning, afternoon and evening
We remember them, we yearn and grieve
We ask their souls for eternal rest
Let's keep love and memory
And we pray on our knees
And again we yearn and grieve.

All poems for you, my angel,
Pain pierces through them every word
And the soul cannot find its peace
Until we are together again.

You will live an eternal memory
And whoever says anything
There, behind the graveyard fence,
The world keeps the memory of you.
People like you won't be easily forgotten
The eyes will remain sparkling with tears.
And for a very long time people will still be
Carry you bouquets of red roses.
Do you sleep. But everything is so unusual.
Everything reminds of you.
And only the rain is so quiet, barely audible
Knocks. As if he was saying hello.

It's so hard for me to live without you
And you - you tease and disturb.
You can't replace me
The whole world .... But it seems that you can.
I have my own in the world:
Deeds, successes and misfortunes.
I just miss you
For complete human happiness.
It's so hard for me to live without you:
Everything is uncomfortable, everything is disturbing ...
You cannot replace the world, -
But he can't help you either!

You are in my heart forever...
So it was, is and will be ...
You can't kill my love
Let people know this ...
And even on the day
That dark day ...
She was not exterminated ...
She is always with me, like a shadow ...
My dear and beloved ...
You can't kill my love ...

Our loved ones don't die -
They return in a warm rain.
They even return from paradise
To see how we love and wait.
After running through the gardens and across the field,
Having drunk flowers and forests,
Having breathed enough native air,
Rise up - into the heavens.
They rise upward - by evaporation,
Turning into a cloud again
And they spill again - in a downpour,
To see our love.
Our loved ones don't die.


There was a man and suddenly he was gone.
His heart stopped beating.
Mom is crying, beloved is crying,
What have you done, you ruined him.
But it could have been different
And do not help the grief, you cry.
You don't know how to live further,
Only during life you forget to love.

I can't hear the voice of my own
No kind cute eyes are visible.
Why was fate cruel?
How early you left us!
Great sorrow cannot be measured
Tears cannot help grief,
You are not with us, but forever
You won't die in our hearts.
No one could save you
He passed away too early.
But the bright image of your dear
We will remember constantly ...

When the closest one leaves,
Dear, beloved person.
The whole world will appear as a bitter drama
Where everything turns black, even the snow.
And never! Nothing in the world
The warmth of their hands cannot be replaced.
As long as you're alive, don't skimp
To give your love to your relatives ...

Loved ones don't die.
Do not cry after those who leave.
It's only the candles that melt
Hearts don't fade, no ...

Don't curse, don't blame
You are nobody and nothing.
Loved ones soar like birds
And they are calm and easy.

Loved ones don't leave.
They will forever be in us
Protecting, warming
Day by day, hour by hour.

Loved ones don't disappear.
They live in me, in you
In spring, nature blooms
And they burn like stars in the darkness.

Loved ones don't die.
Do not cry after those who leave.
It's only the candles that melt
Hearts don't fade, no ...